nonbinary

Quand on est nonbinaire au Québec

Même dans la vie de tout les jours, dans nos espaces sociaux, au travail, dans nos communautés, les personnes queers et transgenres francophones sont toujours en train de prendre des décisions impossibles.

biweekly round-up

Brief Assortment of Interesting Stuff — 4th of January 2019

Every two Fridays, I publish a brief round-up of some of the interesting articles/blogs/YouTube videos/books/music/games that have come across my metaphorical and actual desk.

biweekly round-up

Assortiment bref de trucs intéressants — 4 janvier 2019

Toutes les deux semaines, les vendredis, je publie une courte liste de quelques articles/blogues/vidéos YouTube/livres/musique/jeux que j’ai trouvés intéressants.

Paris

Jet lag and Paris at night

In which I describe my first two nights wandering throughout Paris, mostly in the XVIe and the Marais so far. Includes shoddy cell phone photos! :D

livetweeting

Livetweeting l'assemblée générale 2018-10-28 de la FFQ

J'ai fait du livetweeting sur l'assemblée générale de la Fédération des Femmes du Québec le dimanche 28 octobre, entre 9h30 jusqu'à 19h.

work

Boundaries, Red Flags, and Juggling Projects

So those are my overall 3 big goals for the next 12 months. I'm turning 28 at the end of October. Birthdays are a great time for general self-reflection and critical navel-gazing, right?

work

Mes limites, quand sonner l'alarme, et apprendre à mieux jumeler plusieurs travaux à la fois

Voici mes trois grands objectifs pour l'année qui vient. J'aurais 28 ans en fin octobre. Les anniversaires sont un temps excellent pour l'introspection et un nombrilisme autocritique, n'est-ce pas?

video games

Life Is Strange 2: Episode 1 "Roads" Play-through notes

Here are some quick n' dirty notes on the first episode of Life Is Strange 2 I'm putting here to refer back to later.

Luna

Finding Our Cat Luna

A mere 24 hours after I wrote my previous blog post about losing Luna, we found her under a full moon. Here's how the saga ended: happily!

animal companions

Losing Luna (Hopefully Temporarily)

Last Friday, our cat Luna fell off the balcony and disappeared into the night somewhere in The Plateau of Montréal. And some people are being asses about it.

Getting Married

This past August, I got married! It was lovely. Here are some memories and photos about it.

tattoo

Weaving a dragon tattoo

This is a promise that nothing that has come before now has ruined my body. This is a promise that when I can't help hating my body: it's okay. And not a sign that I am defective.

self care

The Limits of Self-Care

The mainstream "self-care" conversation is all about escape as indulgence, luxury as balm. Fuck that.

plateau

Observations from working as a freelancer

I'm a kind of digital handyman, but it sometimes feels like there's no real opportunity for something really interesting on the horizon.

travel

Giant sculptures in a big field

On a trip to visit family in the USA, we went to visit Storm King Art Centre, which I'd been wanting to see for ages

witchcraft

Spiralrunning at the Witches Sabbat

I love being in the Spiral in the middle of the night. In the four years since I first wandered the woods, the forest is beginning to seem healed. A little less angry. A little more ferocious.

On men who hate women

All of these people are connected, if not along hard ideological lines (though they usually are), then in tactics. In the way they continue to produce the texts and YouTube videos that are then used as battering rams against queer and trans youth, or BIPOC, or women.

creative writing

Carving Space For Healing

A meditation on the fifth of cups in the Tarot and my own relationship with writing especially in the toxic climate of institutional CanLit.

mental health

Winter Wreckages

Winter is long.

mental health

Navigating Doubt

A personal blog post about my mental illness struggles, having empathy, having anxiety, and the world being such a shitty place so much of the time.

technology

Thoughts on the conversation regarding "addiction" to social media

So, with regards to concern about a social media "addiction", is this conversation mostly a moral panic, or about a serious concern about social media’s ubiquity and omnipresence?

companion species

Reading notes on Jere Alexander's "And The Dogs Were Silent"

In this book, through pitbulls, we catch a glimpse into the absurdity of the human-dog relationship as it exists today in settler colonial North America.

science fiction

On our love of monsters

In The Last Jedi, director Rian Johnson's was playing off audience's expectations from messed-up young hot male villains. "This isn't going to go the way you think."

travel

A weekend at Ker Izela

We hop into the car late on Friday evening. A dog, five humans, lots of bags. Another human and two dogs will be joining us the next day up north. We drive through a night punctuated by blurred yellow lights as we get further north, the radio set to the rock station I listened to in high school.

Twine

Notes on my presentation on Twine anti-games for the Groupe Féministe Vidéoludique

Version française de l’article est ici. I was invited to speak on October the 11th by the Groupe Féministe Vidéoludique at Université de Montréal on Twine games and feminist, queer, and transgender